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African men at their most vulnerable. 130 episodes of masculinity, relationships, sex, and real talk from Menisms, a Madeaux Podcasts original.
Episodes
Latest Episode
October 22, 2026 · 1h 3m
Murewa and Isioma are back, and today they explore the lonely men epidemic. They discuss how financial struggles, social media comparisons and societal expectations affect men's confidence and relationships. From growing apart as friends to struggling to ask for help, they unpack why genuine male connection can be difficult to find. They also explore the role of hobbies and community in helping men feel less alone. Ultimately, they ask: Do men have real friendships where they can be vulnerable, or is everyone just pretending to be okay? Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 Follow us:Menisms: Isyomar: Murewa:
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May 28, 2026 · 1h 3m
What does it really take to be the “perfect” girlfriend? And more importantly… does she even exist?In the final episode of the season, the guys dive into the expectations men place on women, the pressure to “perform” perfectly in relationships, and the age-old conversation that starts it all: men and women are different. From communication styles to emotional needs, this episode unpacks the tension, misunderstandings, and standards that shape modern relationships.It’s honest, debatable, slightly chaotic, and the perfect way to close out the season.Menisms will be back very soon with more conversations, more hot takes, and more moments that’ll have you arguing with your headphones.Feel free to leave us a comment.Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0
May 21, 2026 · 54m
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May 14, 2026 · 1h 12m
We’ve all heard the loud, flashy pickup lines that usually end in a drink being thrown or a very awkward "read" receipt. But what about the subtle moves? The ones that actually work so well that women won't even admit they’re falling for them?In this episode of Menisms, we’re pulling back the curtain on the "Best Rizz" that bypasses the radar. We’re talking about the low-key psychological wins—from the "selective' attention" to the power of the "unbothered" energy—that have women intrigued even when they claim they hate the game.Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
May 7, 2026 · 1h 2m
What actually keeps a man thinking about you when you aren't in the room?In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the male psyche to reveal the 10 subtle, non-sexual traits that men find absolutely magnetic—but almost never talk about. They'd shock you. Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
Apr 30, 2026 · 1h 32m
The pressure to perform is real — and most men suffer in silence.In this episode of Menisms, we're going deep on one of the most common yet least talked about experiences in men's sexual health. Whether it's the frustration of not being able to get or maintain an erection, or the embarrassment of ejaculating far sooner than you'd like, these are experiences that have affected more men than will ever admit it.Your hosts, Mure and Isioma, get personal in this one. No filters. No sugarcoating. Just two men sitting down and telling the truth about moments that shook their confidence, tested their relationships, and made them question themselves in ways they weren't prepared for.Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
Apr 23, 2026 · 1h 41m
In this episode, Dammy Twitch and Beverly Osu open up about their unconventional journeys from unexpected career pivots to navigating fame, pressure, and purpose. They unpack the realities of Nollywood, life after Big Brother, working with top-tier artists, and the personal philosophies shaping their paths. It’s honest, layered, and deeply reflective.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
Apr 16, 2026 · 1h 6m
A brutally honest (and hilarious) breakdown of the things men do that make absolutely no sense, yet they will defend with their chest. From ego to conditioning to pure vibes, this episode unpacks the why behind the behaviour.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
Apr 9, 2026 · 1h 32m
In this episode of Menisms, the guys sit down with the ladies from Binti Talks to unpack one of the most debated questions ever: can men and women really just be friends?From blurred boundaries to hidden feelings, they get into real-life scenarios, uncomfortable truths, and the moments when “just friends” starts to mean something more. Is it possible, or are we all just pretending?Expect honest takes, a little chaos, and perspectives from both sides you might not agree with… but definitely need to hear. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0SFollow our guests:Binti Talks: https://www.instagram.com/bintitalkstz?igsh=dXh3cGN4ejBuaTYy
Apr 2, 2026 · 1h 14m
"Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life" is the ultimate career lie.In this episode, we discuss the moment a creative dream becomes a logistical nightmare and why monetising your hobbies can actually kill the joy that made them special in the first place. Enjoy.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S